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§Author· 2 books

Laura Nowlin

Explorations of youth, emotional intimacy, and poignant heartbreak define the contemporary young adult fiction surrounding If He Had Been with Me, a novel that achieved widespread recognition on bestseller lists and reading communities. Laura Nowlin crafts emotionally resonant narratives that delve into complex adolescent relationships, tragic misunderstandings, and the enduring weight of unspoken feelings.

Career & Background

Laura Nowlin earned a Bachelor of Arts in English with an emphasis in Creative Writing from Missouri State University. Her academic background in creative writing laid the groundwork for her career as an author, establishing a disciplined focus on character development and emotional realism. Beyond her work as an author, she spent years working at a public library, where daily interactions with library patrons provided continuous insight and inspiration for her storytelling.

Living in St. Louis, Missouri, with her family—including her musician husband and their pets—Nowlin balanced her writing career with her passion for reading. Her time spent working in public librarianship reinforced her perspective on the vital connection between stories and readers, informing her approach to authoring character-driven youth literature.

Writing Style & Themes

Central to Nowlin's literary philosophy is the belief that storytelling and imagination allow human beings to connect deeply with one another through shared narrative experiences. Her novels frequently explore theme-driven dilemmas involving long-standing childhood friendships, unexpressed romantic affection, and the life-altering impact of unforeseen tragedy. She emphasizes interior monologue and subtle interpersonal shifts to highlight how small choices affect personal destinies.

Her breakout novel, If He Had Been with Me, was originally inspired by a vivid dream during a pivotal moment in her life, prompting her to write about grief and longing from a raw emotional perspective. In addition to her young adult books, she has expanded her stylistic range to develop dark, adult fiction projects that examine complex human behavior and lost perspectives.

Major Works

  • If He Had Been with Me — This bestselling novel explores the lifelong bond and unresolved feelings between Autumn and Finny, chronicling their shifting dynamic and the tragic event that alters their future.
  • If Only I Had Told Her — A companion narrative that re-examines pivotal events from If He Had Been with Me, providing additional character perspectives that broaden the emotional scope of the original story.
  • This Song is Not for You — A young adult novel centered on three close friends navigating romantic complications, artistic ambition, and shifting loyalties within a shared musical dynamic.
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§All Books
Cover of If He Had Been with Me by Laura Nowlin

If He Had Been with Me

Laura Nowlin, 2013
181 ratings
Cover of If Only I Had Told Her by Laura Nowlin

If Only I Had Told Her

Laura Nowlin, 2023
46 ratings

§ About Laura Nowlin's books

Books on SansFiction
2
Published
2013–2023
Average rating
3.6 / 5 across 227 ratings
Genres
Young Adult, Fiction, Friendship, Romance
Series
If He Had Been with Me

Start here: If He Had Been with Me (2013)

If he had been with me everything would have been different... I wasn't with Finn on that August night. But I should've been. It was raining, of course. And he and Sylvie were arguing as he drove down the slick road. No one ever says what they were arguing about. Other people think it's not important. They do not know there is another story.

If He Had Been with Me: reading order

  1. If He Had Been with Me
  2. If Only I Had Told Her

Common questions about Laura Nowlin

Who is Laura Nowlin?
Laura Nowlin earned a Bachelor of Arts in English with an emphasis in Creative Writing from Missouri State University. Her academic background in creative writing laid the groundwork for her career as an author, establishing a disciplined focus on character development and emotional realism.
What is Laura Nowlin best known for?
Laura Nowlin is best known for If He Had Been with Me, published in 2013 with 181 ratings and a 3.6 average. It is the most-rated of Laura Nowlin's books on SansFiction.
How many books has Laura Nowlin written?
SansFiction lists 2 books by Laura Nowlin, published between 2013 and 2023. The most popular are If He Had Been with Me and If Only I Had Told Her.
What order should I read Laura Nowlin's If He Had Been with Me books in?
Read the If He Had Been with Me books in series order: 1. If He Had Been with Me, 2. If Only I Had Told Her.
What genres does Laura Nowlin write?
Laura Nowlin's books on SansFiction are tagged Young Adult, Fiction, Friendship and Romance.

Explore: Young Adult · Fiction · Friendship · Romance